Posts Tagged "marriage"

Moustache & Marriage

Posted by on Apr 5, 2010 in Relationship | 1 comment

“Will you shave your moustache when we get married”   These were the exact words, that broke the silence in a taxi moving through Mumbai city. Year 1997. One of those moments in my life, when I felt completely numb. Stuck for words. Senses were jammed and could not respond.   I was in a taxi with this girl, dropping her to her place after a late evening of overtime work. It was a policy in my office that male members would accompany female members back home if they were to work late on projects.   Till date, I have not understood this question. I can't fathom...

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What Love really Means

Posted by on Mar 22, 2010 in Relationship | 0 comments

When couples come to me for pre-marital counseling, I sometimes ask: “Why do you want to get married?”  Whatever else, they say, they always give me the big reason; and the big reason is always the same.  What do they say?  “We love each other.”  Then I ask a very unfair question:  “Tell me, what do you mean by that?”  There is silence.  Then, one will say, “Oh… you know!” I guess maybe I do know.  I think they are talking about a euphoric emotion that makes them oblivious to reality.  They are the happiest they have ever...

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