Meaningless Conversation
A very interesting aspect of human life is relationship. Now I am not talking about a man and woman only. Neither am I limiting it to any social context. For instance the relation between the checkout clerk and the grumpy old woman; or sulking conductor and equally sulking passenger; is what I am talking about. A simple thing like smile has disappeared from human life. This has a direct impact on relations. Now some may call it as daily interaction but I call it relation. The old man at the newsstand, the pretty girl at the coffee shop, senior citizen volunteering at road crossing, the cab...
Read MoreThe project is Live
On this fathers day, I am so happy to have complete the third site. Now the project is officially live. What it is about, I will discuss some other time. Just wanted to make a quick note on this day, of a great step forward. I also dedicated the most important of the three sites to my Father. It was his encouragement and nourishing of a growing childs curiousity that led me to learn more. Never to worry about formal studies but to explore whatever comes to mind. To be brave, to be honest and to be gentle. With such strong early foundation, I must say I am blessed to have grown in to a more...
Read MoreWhat Love really Means
When couples come to me for pre-marital counseling, I sometimes ask: “Why do you want to get married?” Whatever else, they say, they always give me the big reason; and the big reason is always the same. What do they say? “We love each other.” Then I ask a very unfair question: “Tell me, what do you mean by that?” There is silence. Then, one will say, “Oh… you know!” I guess maybe I do know. I think they are talking about a euphoric emotion that makes them oblivious to reality. They are the happiest they have ever...
Read MoreFat Indian Women
… and men too. Has anyone wondered why India as a nation has so many fat people? Supposed to be a poor developing nation and yet, you find so many fat people. I exempt the older generation but what about those below … let’s say 50? Big hard shelled bellies, flab dangling around arms, legs and hips. Some even have flab around neck and face. Is is just the food? Life style? Negligence? What is it? I know by now, many of you have prepared an answer in back of your mind. You are probably right in your answer. I think differently. I think it is sheer lack of self love. No body really...
Read MoreI am the ‘I’
I have added the prayer on the story pages of Ho’oponopono. I could not find words to describe this incredible Hawaiin method. So till such time, the best I could do is to put the prayer. Share this:ShareShareDiggEmailPrint
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