Reality vs. Perception
Lately I have been facing a lot of questions pertaining what is reality. Not that I am any expert on that subject but as I like to, I tried to put my mind to at least understand the question. I have always said, before trying to find an answer, see if you understand the question in the first place. So on reality, I was pondering for few days. Is it what we believe is reality or what we refuse to believe is reality? I cut my self while preparing some meal. It hurts. That is reality? Or because I believe, since I am cut, it hurts, that is reality? No I don’t mean to say that if I start...
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Learn Chinese in 5 minutes…(You MUST read them out loud). With all due respect to my Chinese friends. I hope they take this with a pinch of salt. If anyone finds it offending, let me know, I will take it out. 1) That’s not right ……………………………. Sum Ting Wong 2) Are you harboring a Fugitive? ………………. Hu Yu Hai Ding 3) See me ASAP…………………………………… Kum Hia Nao 4) Stupid Man...
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When couples come to me for pre-marital counseling, I sometimes ask: “Why do you want to get married?” Whatever else, they say, they always give me the big reason; and the big reason is always the same. What do they say? “We love each other.” Then I ask a very unfair question: “Tell me, what do you mean by that?” There is silence. Then, one will say, “Oh… you know!” I guess maybe I do know. I think they are talking about a euphoric emotion that makes them oblivious to reality. They are the happiest they have ever...
Read MoreWisdom: cometh by age?
One question that has always been on my mind. Does age really bring wisdom? I don’t know the answer but one thing I have definitely observed is that as one gets older, the need and desperation to have a companion gains a fanatic proportions. This is especially important to observe since the younger generation is also, in more than one way, is desperately trying to find a companion. So as one grows, should they not become wiser to live with the fact that it is indeed futile to seek that companion? Should one not live with the fact that one who is supposed to be in your life, is already...
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Let me tell you a story. Well thats what I do. Tell stories. Stories, probably you have heard before. Stories maybe new. However, with the story I tell, there is a lesson, a message, not the obvious one, but something specific for you, is attached. Read it carefully and see how you feel. So the story goes … – Lu Ting, drove half the town across to eat at a greek restaurant of Papadopoulus, for simple reason, the owner Papadopoulus made the best tasting fried rice in town. Every time Lu Ting came to the restaurant, Papadopoulus would call his friends to watch something what he...
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